We had received so many well-wishing emails for Janice, however a point to note is that though we could forward the emails to her, she and some of her dim friends do not really approve of us doing this. This is because she felt that it made her look like an attention-seeker and trying to harm the adulterous pair. That's is understandable, because she is under tremendous stress now and cannot think straight.
But we cannot say the same for that small group of dim people around her. Oh well...
As such, please contact her directly (if you have, but we are not going to give out her contacts, so don't ask) and tell her how much you support her.
Although the online community is smart enough to realise that this is not a doing of Janice herself and thus she cannot be blamed, a small minority still felt that we are causing her harm. We do not mind being fucked, screwed or scolded, simply because that is the purpose of this blog from the beginning - to draw criticism away from Janice and let her recover slowly in your kind words.
So yeah, give us your harsh words, but save the encouragements for Janice directly.
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I am sad and sorry after reading.. Best wishes from me to u and ur little princess!! 好好带大她，孩子没能选择谁作她母亲。但母亲能为孩子选择怎样的未来。。 开开心心。看着孩子长大成人！加油！
Janis, you are such a beautiful lady. I am sincerely sorry about what has happened to you. GOD will bless you and your little new hope.
Be strong, Janis. Everything will eventually be over, please learn to forgive and forget. Life has to go on.
Open your new chapter and move on. Take care.
i think u should leave janice photo out of this site. as singapore is a very small place and people can recognise her pretty easily ,in her current vulnerable state, she may fall prey to malicous ppl who use the information on this site to harm her.
Wow! I'm simply amazed by the lack of consideration that you bunch of numb skulls have!
After all the comments posted on your 26 Nov blog, you people still dont get it, do you?
Have it ever occured to you that it's YOUR GROUP who might be continuing giving unwanted pressure and public attention to Janice's predicament? You insistence on re-publishing her private life AND HER PHOTOS when she had already closed her blog to public access is putting her under tremendous stress, you fools!
FYI, nobody is CRITICISING Janice...Most of the post and comments are AIMED AT you bunch of morons for your insensitivity and your apparent lack of respect for Janice's need for privacy and her desire to move away from this sad chapter of her life...
MORONS!
By powderful....
This is Janice blog and obivously she is the one who post all those entries. IP address works. If its true this blog is not written by Janice, then Janice should make a police report/harrasing report to the higher authorities. Well, if not, its going to spread soon.
Which dumb-fuck has Janice's blog password? And suprisingly, the person who have Janice's password DARE to update entries?! Oh, this is so unique. I have never met such a daring person.
Better get a life mofucks! Don't act yaya papaya here ok. You never know how serious this matter can lead you to.
Small minority?
The large majority who support you must be emailing your privately then, and you must be truly bright indeed.
agagooga...
Not surprising...given their lack of EQ and who knows, IQ...
Simple mathematics calculation is beyond these numb skulls...
Anyway, in their words, they dont mind being fucked, screwed or scolded...so let's give them hell...
And the funny thing is, in their latest entry, they even got the cheek to write that "she and some of her dim friends do not really approve of us doing this"..."That's understandable, because she is under tremendous stree now and cannot think straight"....
Hmmm....I wonder why she's under stress...can anyone harbour a guess?
I'll make a guess and say that some morons out there is trying to make her life hell...YES...the same morons who started this blog....
Maybe she was under stress and couldn't think straight and thus set up the blog, making it public, in the first place.
Now that she's thinking straight she's made it private.
I wonder why.
Hurr hurr.
Agagooga
I just wished that these bunch of idiots shut down this blog and leave Janice in peace...
She got enough on her plate already without worrying about a bunch of morons getting her into more trouble and reminding her daily about her unhappiness...
Some help indeed.... *pui*
To Janice, if you are somehow reading this, you did the right thing! It's good to pour out your sorrows and grieveances initially...but it's even better to learn that you have decided to move on with your life, forgive and forget; and not let the past hurt you anymore...Kudos to that...
I wish you well for the future...
To the person who set up this blog:
Since almost the entire SG web community has already learnt of this (none of my friends are unaware of this blog now!), whatever intentions you had should have been achieved.
Do close this blog and let Janice move on.
To Janice:
I'm sure you will be able cope as you get strength from your little girl and from everyone who loves you.
To Gerald & TOW:
Well, how shall I put it?
Irresponsible is definitely one of the words to describe you both. And you can be sure that someone who is irresponsible in his/her personal life will be just as irresponsible in his/her professional/work life too.
Inconsiderate would be another word as you had not cared about the feelings of your spouse, your immediate family, your friends/colleagues/clients.
Immature is yet another word. Why lie when you could have come clean with everything from the start and prevented all the unhappiness from happening?
Your boss, friends, family and clients will find it hard to trust you again.
You are no different from that adulterous pair for being so cruel to Janice by prolonging her pain. Since you are so righteous, why don't you pay for Janice legal fees, her baby maintenenace fees, and her opportunity cost of not getting a salary if she ever lost her job or lost an opportunity on a job offer because of your stupidity in posting this blog? Can you bear all these consequences, you idiots?
Dear Supporters of Janice,
Please boycott this blog and ignore the idiots.
just wondering what's your true intentions are? If you guys are really helping janice, kindly remove her photos. Pics of gerald chua can be left behind and perhaps zoom it. Do spare a thought for Janice and her family. By putting up her pics will not only make her future a dimmer one but also her depression state to worsen. Please do Janice a good deed by heeding this advice. I'm sure every Janice's friends will greatly appreciate if pics of Janice can be removed. If you guys still won't heed this advice, I'm sure you guys are not really helping Janice as she herself had actually closed her blog. If not helping, please do let us know what are your real intentions.
I'm commenting as a bypasser...
It's not right to publicize others' affairs without permission. But think of what you would do if someone leaves your sister or friend who is pregnant for another woman. If you're really a supporter of Janice, then ask nicely. People only continue doing things they think is right, unless you talk reason. Hurling abuse is hardly persuasive.
To Gerald & Rowena:
What goes around comes around. With morals like yours, I can only be glad I don't know you, business and personal.
I sympathise with Janice and hope that everything's going on as best as it is for her. i hope that she'll be strong, though it may sound hard, but i believe that when faced with adversity, women are strong. especially when we have exceptionally strong maternal instincts when we are pregnant.we'll do what we can to protect the child.
However, i hope that Janice's and in-laws' photos can be taken off to protect their privacy.
Janice doesn't need unwanted attention at this time. Though support may be crucial for her but this form of support may prove to be more harm than good. Imagine her plight if she doesn't dare to step out of her house, for fear of ppl recognising her. This will not help her in her pregnancy and this is the least everyone here wants to see.
though the family members are not directly involved here but it makes no sense to post their pictures up here. they still need their privacy and time to overcome this huge tidal wave that came trashing down on their family. they ain't the ones who did wrong.
The ones who erred is the adulterous pair, whom i agree that their photos should be on for everyone to see. there is no reason why u can hurt someone this badly and think that u can get away scot-free.. as a woman, i cannot imagine how another woman could bring herself to break up a family,knowing the pregnancy. and to think that she has just got ROM-ed, i'm disgusted with her thoroughly.
as for gerald,he deserves to be in the limelight.and to powderful who posted a msg, a defamation suit won't succeed as everything that is posted here is true unless he has the cheek to say that he didn't do anything wrong or deny his wrongdoings. if he really can do that, i think he can be better off as dead.
gerald, i'm sure u'll read this blog somehow or another, or u could have posted one of those nasty rude comments in this blog. u committed a grave mistake which you had the cheek to deny to and be nasty about it. consult your conscience, or at least whatever remains (i hope it still can fill a 5ml spoon), and try to make things right.u left a pregnant woman (if u recall- ur wife), right smack in the middle of her pregnancy and not sparing a single thought for anyone else around you. don't give the shit crap that there's no right or wrong in r'ship matter, because there is. so don't act righteous.
this may be their family matter but since the adulterous pair had the cheek and guts to do something like that, i reckon these guts should suffice for them to face the consequences of what they did.
although it is visible that netizens are blasting the person who started out the blog, i think the initial motivation was out of love for janice and anger towards the adulterous pair. it was an irrational move to put up the photos of the innocent parties so i hope that these photos can be taken down. As for the photos of those who should bear the consequences, leave it for them to bear. they deserve it.
Karen:
u great summary of my thoughts. :)
Janice:
You may not be reading this, but take heart that there are ppl out there who are keeping u in their daily prayers :)
Please, respect janice's wish to have her privacy (else she will not have locked down her blog) and shut down this blog. You are not helping her at all.
Thanks
I went thru the same events as Janice. Even had the same name as her. I also blog in public abt TOW. But i also locked it down.
The only difference is that my hubby came back to me. Came back to my 2 sons and my newborn.
Its not easy to move on. Its not nice to show TOW picture. Cos there is no right and wrong in LOVE.
Sometimes, wrong things happen at wrong time. No use playing the blame game and move on.
I am still trying to heal. Cos forgive and forget is easier said than done.
For Janice, some may say if he come back to you, accept him. for me, i rather not. Im still tormented by nightmares n his heartless words.
by Janice #2
so sad story
What is your purpose for setting up this blog? Give her encouragement? Come on, she has enough of it before she locked up her blog. Noone can help her, only SHE can help herself to stand up, to be strong. We are not her, we won't understand how she feels when her husband dump her except people who got dumped by their spouse. She knows everyone cares for her so just LEAVE HER ALONE.
You know what. The whole world has LOTS of adulterous men and women. Do you think you can find every one of them and post their pictures on the Internet? They will get their karma. Posting their pictures, tracking their movements, is just PLAIN CHILDISH. You people claim you are helping her. Fact is, it seems to me she's trying to gain attention for herself because you people keep doing these!
NOONE likes to broadcast their dirty linen in public. So spare her will you. Spare her daughter, spare her family and spare her! You are just a typical gossip monger, poking your nose into other people's business which is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
*I hope the real janice can put a stop to this. Your real intention may be to set up a blog as an outlet for you. But for yourself now, you know better whether you need privacy and you have the right to demand it.
Sending my love and hugs to Janice.
Stay strong.
That jerk Gerald and his bitch are the perfect adulterous pair made in hell!
He's hopeless.
Forget about him and move on.
You can do it!
May God bless you and your little princess in your tummy now.
Take good care of yourself.
Oh, I am positively drowning in the sheer amount of milk of human kindness.
Agagooga: From your comments, it is clear that you are not for this blog to serve as an act of self-righteousness. I am just wondering: as one of the editors-at-large of Tomorrow, is there anything you can do to remove the page from Tomorrow?I know that the cat is already out of the bag, and removing it may be nothing more than a symbolic gesture. But surely you would not condone the actions of jseng?
vanillaguy:
Let's just say that there's a reason why the only editor posting in the comments for that post is jseng.
Agagooga:
Sorry to hear about that man. Pretty sad to see Tomorrow descending to new lows (with all due respects to yourself). Guess what we can do is to keep flagging this blog as objectionable.
Seriously, do you enjoy having your pictures splashed all over someone's blog and unknown people commenting on your family matters?
You don't even know what Janice has went through, and you just simply reproduces her stuff and act like some insensitive, self-righteous fool.
There has to be a reason why she locked her blog. Why can't you respect that?
By publishing her private family matters, you're just creating unnecessary attention for her and her family, don't you understand that? Singapore is not small!
Please do give her & her family some peace.
Interestingly..... this blog is advertised in mocca.com, the Number One Online Classifieds
Please.... close this blog... please. This is hurting Janice even more. Let her go on peacefully, please.
Hi everyone
Enough has been say about this KPO creater of this blog,let's us all boycott this blog by not posting anymore comments after this post.
i guess the reason why she locked her blog is coz gerald's family is experiencing ustess.... @!#@!@#!@#!@#! lah.. gerald u totally deserve all these $$!#!@#!@@!#@!@# and to your family too... for ur super poor unbringing!
For those who promote the boycott of this blog, u guys are the same as us as u are constantly reading this blog. hahaha. This makes u guys / gals same as me & those who detess the pair. What makes u all noble as u are also continuously reading this blog or other forums to update yourself of the news update. Dun think u are all saints ok? pls lah. Those who support this blog, pls continue your support for Janice & the victimised husband of TOW. Freedom of speech and words in this era!
Be strong for yr bb! That is all I can say...
srsly Janice is much prettier than that other slut.
Hi to the owner of this blog. I am a friend of janice. I do hope that you take into consideration of replicating this information from the original blogger, the harm you are generating to the families instead of doing justice to her. They are victims too.
Instead of doing justice to her, you are dramatising her and her family.
Please close down this blog site, and let them settle in private. We are no one to comment or publicise their family matter.
Again, if you really take janice into consideration, and wanna do good to her. Please close it down. She has shown that she is not willing to publicise this event to the pubic by protecting her blog when she learned that.
I believed she is dramatised by this. I do hope that you have stop immediately. Think from her angle, how is she going to face the public, she will get strange stare from the public and this might further bring her into depression.
If you do have a heart, please stop it immediately. Let her have a piece of mind to move on and heal from her wound. Thank you and really really appreciate if you do it.
Also to "detester of the adulterous pair", please understand that boycotting this blog or rather shutting down this blog is for the sake of janice and her family. Please leave them alone and allow them to carry on with their lives.
I would really appreciate for you guys and the owner of this replica blog site stand in her and her family shoes. How would you FEEL!
This is nothing to be proud of!!!
I believe all the readers would share the same sentiments that we should not continue to publicise this and put it to a stop immediately.
Let her and her family carry on her life... ...
Thank you
hey jan, i got cheated on as well. infact, it was just last wednesday; that cursed mambo night. anyhow i'm just dropping by to tell you to stay positive (even tho its kinda hard to) and move on in life.. its ok to indulge in sadness for the time being, but just remember to pick yourself up in due time.
daylights bound to come, so keep your head lifted there honey. we'll survive this storm.
always behind you;
Lance C.
Hi all readers who still read the comments, i've flagged this blog in hope that it can be closed down by the blogger maintenance cos i don't think the owner wants to shut this down voluntarily.
if you think this should be shut down, please flag the site too. thanks.
After reading this blog.... I was awaken by it.... experiences are similar to Janice and what I need to do now....is to stand strong like Janice and take good care of my children. Somehow or rather, I feel more peaceful now and trying to tell myself to leave the past behind and look forward. But still it hurts and I will never forget the painful memories I had.
It was just like posting my own experiences in this blog, therefore, felt like as if I have poured out my sorrows.
Still trying to stop crying...
Just Another One
this world is divided into two - those who are dumb and those who are not. you belong to the former.
ser-ri-ous-ly, are you dumb or are u dumb?
i really don't see how this is helping the situation.
i'm sure there's a reason for this lady to lock up her blog in the first place and your 'noble cause' seems to be counteracting her intentions.
in any case, if u are truthfully garnering sympathy for this lady... it's definitely the wrong strategy anyway.
sympathy impedes her from moving on, it would be more helpful if u post stuff to help her dissect the situation rather than harping and reliving (not relieving, just in case ur english is as bad as ur eq)what she already went thru.
have a nice day. may u wake up a smarter person tmr.
This site should be kept alive for as long as there are adulterous couples out there. To serve as a reminder that there is a price to pay for your misdeeds. And to serve as a reminder for those victims of adultery to stay strong and live for the love ones that matters most.
I somehow question the validity of this blog...
Since her blog is already set as private, how can one still post entries tat are relating to her blog here?
This blog shld be closed to prevent futher publicity..
RESPECT JANICE'S WILL TO KEEP HER BLOG.
THIS BLOG IS NOT A GALANT ACT TO
HELP HER BUT A BIGOTRY VIGLANTE
ACT TO RUB SALT ON HER WOUNDS.
DONT MAKE HER LIFE INTO A CIRCUS
IF U REALLY CARE FOR HER
U SHOULD RESPECT HER WILL.
U BLOODY INSENSITIVE IDIOT.
The people who set up this stupid blog are pathetic little cunts who should mind their own goddamn business. What right do you have to interfere in other people's lives? Arseholes.
There are pros and cons for this blog.
Those who object and scold bad words, are no doubt Gerald's and the bitch Rowena's family, relatives, friends, anyone related to them.
Keep this blog open.
I'm for it!
Whoever that is running this blog must be the most self righteous, thick skinned, intellectually dense, irrationally stubborn person who really does not have anything better to do in life.
If your intentions are pure. Wake up and shut this blog.
If your intentions are malicious and you wish to hurt Janice; Fuck you, you are a sick cunt! I will not add to your intentions. I will not speak of this blog to anyone and this is the last time i am ever looking at it.
To Janice, if you do see this. Stay Strong and don't ever lose hope. And when i say hope, i don't necessary mean reconciliation with your husband but hope for things getting better in your life. If you're a Christian, spend time with the Lord. If you're not, i suggest going to church. You have nothing to lose and all to gain. Take Care and God Bless.
Starboy d,
Shame on you if you are Christian.
Only christian is shameful? Weird Christian ego.speechless!
Hey! Dun u pple get it?! Everything on the blog here could be the efforts of that TOW/TOB(bitch)! Since she can be this thick-skinned and wicked enough to break ppl's marriage up...she could have gone to the extent of setting this hoo-haa up to create zero chance of that darling bastard of hers going back to his wife! What a cunning cunt!
I don't know what this blog is trying to do. We are no one to judge this event. Why not just continue to live our lives and let Janice continue hers in peace?
There is a difference between being supportive and taking things into your own hands.
Time to grow up and stop be childish. You are not helping your friend. You are making the mess even worser than it is.
Get a life of your own and stop trying to manage the crisis of others.
miloice
"Hey! Dun u pple get it?! Everything on the blog here could be the efforts of that TOW/TOB(bitch)! Since she can be this thick-skinned and wicked enough to break ppl's marriage up...she could have gone to the extent of setting this hoo-haa up to create zero chance of that darling bastard of hers going back to his wife! What a cunning cunt!"
I really don't get it. Are you a writer of romance novels or something? If not, why not consider this career path seriously. I'm sure you have fans like this group of childish kiddos here worshiping your creative novels.
miloice
please respect janice's privacy and remove her pix from your blog. you are free to do what you wish with TOW and The Man but let Janice get on with her life in her own way. She's suffered enough and you need to spare a thought for her family too.
janice, you are a beautiful and brave woman. when my friends and i found out about your story we felt what i suppose is less than 1% of the pain you are feeling. just hope that you can really get over him. hes not worth your tears and time. he doesnt deserve you. yes, he deserves someone like the b**ch.
i really wonder how Janice is now ler. hope she's doing good ! =)
She gave birth to a princess named nicole!
All the best, hoon
hey janice..
please be strong...its not worth to spend time being upset for such persons.
look forward, do not worry about when you can get over it. try your best at pulling yourself together and cheer up.
put your effort on those who deserve your care and concern.
be good to yourself. live for yourself and those who care for you.
jia you! jia you!
Can we have some updates about janice? i'd really want to know whether she's getting on well. I saw that guy's friendster and it's now a photo of their dog. are they back together? if so, i hope he'll treasure her..
Ive always read her blog and was upset that now it's not opened to public. I was wondering if there is any ways to read it now.... I could totally understand how she feels.. not that I have the same experience.. but i heard of too many. I felt that we ladies should all be together and help one another. Hope she's fine now. Do comment back at my site if there is any chances of me getting to read her blog again.
So is the guy and the TOW still together?
I wonder how are they now. N Janice and the Daughter
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